Sunday, December 26, 2010
Thursday, December 23, 2010
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Back in the old days….
People actually helped their neighbors out. Someone needed something done? The neighbors would come over and help. Someone having a hard time in life? Neighbors and churches would help out if they could. The US needs a bit of the neighborrly spirit again. Goverment help should be a last resort. It would save our country some money, and perhaps get that spirit of friendship and brotherly love going once again.
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Even Though They’re Called Free Agents Doesn’t Mean They’re Free
With some of the top free agent Baseball players asking for contracts totaling over 100 million dollars each, do you think anyone is worth 20 millon dollars a year?
Thursday, December 9, 2010
Disrespect for our Fallen Soldiers and a Classy Woman
It is disgusting what Fred Phelps and his crew are doing! He is the so called pastor of a church in Kansas who goes around picketing the funerals of soldiers killed in Iraq and Afghanistan. These “Christians” say that its God’s revenge for the US accepting gays. And they are also planning on picketing Elizabeth Edward’s funeral. Damn, let the poor lady rest in peace, after what she went through! We’re a fan of freedom of speech, but have a little compassion!
Sunday, December 5, 2010
For you sports fans...
Tired of blackouts in your area? This Site Lets you see just about every game going on every day!
Friday, December 3, 2010
Sex and the Religious Right
It seems like the extreme Religious Right is more interested in other people's sex life rather then taking care of their own marriages/relationships. They need to work on that, and their other Christian duties such as helping the poor and needy. Get your priorities straight!
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
Second Chances
This year in sports, there have been 2 shining examples of people making the most of a second chance. Texas Rangers outfielder Josh Hamilton missed 2 years in the middle of the decade due to drug and Alcohol abuse, and came back with a tremendous season last season, and was named the American League MVP. In Football, Philadelphia Eagles Quarterback Michael Vick spent 18 months in Federal prison for dog fighting, has become a model citizen, and in having a monster season. The moral of this story is no one is beyond redemption, and we need to be a bit more forgiving, both public figures, and friends and family in our own lives.
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
The Evils Of Facebook?
This article is about A New Jersey pastor who ordered the married members of his staff to get rid of their Facebook accounts or face being fired. He thinks that this is too much temptation and will cause them to have affairs with old flames, or start an affair with a new person. In our opinion, this is going a bit too far. An employer has no right to tell an employee what they can do in their private time. Also, if a person has to start an affair, whether it's online or otherwise, their marriage might already have problems. Sounds like those who think that kids that watch a lot of tv and play a lot of video games are automatically going to become violent.
As We Near Thankskgiving...
What are you thankful for? Family? Friends? A good job? A Roof over your head? There are so many things in life we need to be thankful for!
Saturday, November 20, 2010
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Thursday, November 11, 2010
Honoring Our Veterans
A "Thank You and Well Done" to all our veterans! If you know one, tell them how thankful you are for their service! Our freedoms were bought with the lives of millions of our soldiers, sailers, marines, and airmen.
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Losing Their Faith-from Billy
I was reading this article about 2 ministers that have abandoned Christianity and became Athiests, but still perform their church duties. My question is: if you don't believe in God anymore, why be the spiritual advisor and minister to people who do believe? It's a good thing that these guys didn't want their identities to be shown, or else they would be in big trouble! The idea of an Athiest being a minister is like a Republican being given a leadership role in the Democratic party.
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
So Let's See..
Here Are Some Of The Fine Republicans Elected Last Week:
Florida Governor Elect Rick Scott: Owner of a company under investigation for Medicare fraud
Wisconsin Senator Elect Ron Johnson: Defended pedophile priests and the Catholic Church cover up
Back to Florida: Congressman elect David Rivera, under investigation for domestic violence.
And still in Fla: Allen West, who confessed to killing Iraqi civilians while in the Army, now on his way to Congress
Florida Governor Elect Rick Scott: Owner of a company under investigation for Medicare fraud
Wisconsin Senator Elect Ron Johnson: Defended pedophile priests and the Catholic Church cover up
Back to Florida: Congressman elect David Rivera, under investigation for domestic violence.
And still in Fla: Allen West, who confessed to killing Iraqi civilians while in the Army, now on his way to Congress
Monday, November 1, 2010
Get out and Vote!
Tomorrow is election day in the US. If you’re registered to vote, get out and do it! If you’re Republican, Democrat, or Independent, it doesn’t matter! there are going to be several close races, and every vote will count. if you don’t vote and don’t like the results, don’t complain!
Sunday, October 31, 2010
Friday, October 29, 2010
Heroes And Villians
This weeks hero is 20 year old Marisol Valles, a Mexican criminology student and single Mom who has taken the job of Police Chief in one of Mexico's worse, drug ridden towns. Brave lady, as her predicessor was beheaded by a drug cartel.
This week's villian is Clint Mccance, the now former VP of the4 Midland, Arkansas school board, who was forced to resign do to anti gay writings on his Facebook. He said that gay kids should bill themselves.
Any more candidates?
This week's villian is Clint Mccance, the now former VP of the4 Midland, Arkansas school board, who was forced to resign do to anti gay writings on his Facebook. He said that gay kids should bill themselves.
Any more candidates?
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
Monday, October 11, 2010
Thursday, October 7, 2010
Credit Cards-Good Or Bad?
Credit cards, by themselves, are not bad. It's how you use them. Just because you have one DOES NOT mean you have to charge every thing you buy. In my ( Billy's ) opinion, they can be addictive, like a drug. Having thousands of dollars of credit card debt can totally mess up your financial situation. money that you were saving for something else will have to go towards paying off the bill, and debt in general can cause tension within families.So, think before you charge!
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Billy's Predictions for the Baseball playoffs- Divisional round
Lets see....
American League:
NY Yankees Over Min. In 5-With a lotta good pitching expected in this one, there should be a few extra inning games.
Texas over Tampa in 5- If Cliff Lee has a repeat of his 2009 post season, and Josh Hamilton's Ribs Hold up.
National League:
Philadelphia over Cincy in 3- The 2 Roys (Halliday and Oswalt) have been incridible the last 2 months, and Cole Hamels can shut down anyone on any day.
SF over ATL in 5. This is a toss up could go either way. Both teams have good hitting and pitching.
What's your picks?
American League:
NY Yankees Over Min. In 5-With a lotta good pitching expected in this one, there should be a few extra inning games.
Texas over Tampa in 5- If Cliff Lee has a repeat of his 2009 post season, and Josh Hamilton's Ribs Hold up.
National League:
Philadelphia over Cincy in 3- The 2 Roys (Halliday and Oswalt) have been incridible the last 2 months, and Cole Hamels can shut down anyone on any day.
SF over ATL in 5. This is a toss up could go either way. Both teams have good hitting and pitching.
What's your picks?
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Friday, October 1, 2010
Who's In The Doghouse This Week?
A: Now ex CNN anchor Rick Sanchez for saying that all news companies are run by Jews
B: Now ex Michigan Attny Gen. Andrew Shirvell, Who Cyber Stalked the Student Body Pres of the U. Of Michigan because he's Gay
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C: Dhuran Ravi and Molly Wei, whos webcam spying lead to the suicide of Rutgers student Tyler Clementi.
D: The Guy who hit and Totaled Hannah's Bus.
Choose any or all!
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Happy Book Banning Week
I was interested to see that this is Banned Book Week. In a country with freedom of speech and expression like the US, you'd think that the idea of banning books would not exist. But sadly, it's here. My opinion: I know that some subjects are not appropriate for certain age groups, and there are subjects that you may disagree with , and that's OK. If you don't like it, DON'T READ IT!!!! If I want to read something, I have the right to do so, without you putting your nose in my affairs. DON'T FORCE YOUR MORALITY ON ME! You take away 1 freedom, and the rest will follow...
Saturday, September 25, 2010
The GOP Civil War
Seems like the Republican Party has been hijacked by the extremist of the Tea Party. When you have someone like Utah Senator Bob Bennett, who is probably one of the most conservative members of congress primaried out of his job, you know that the crazies have taken control. The extremists demand that all party members vote in lock step with their demands, and any bit of compromise is seen as a sign of being a sellout. It remains to be seen if the Tea Party is a "Flavor of the month" Fad, if the sane members can regain control, or if the moderates are totally forced out.
If you can't Trust a preacher....
Teacher, coach, or anyone else entrusted with your kids, who can you trust? Those who use their positions of authority to get close to kids in order to commit abuse are the lowest of the low, and need to be prosecuted as severly as possible!
Friday, September 24, 2010
With All The Religioius Intolerence...
I'm afraid that we are headed towards a religious war here in the US. The moderates in each faiths are being shouted out by the extremists, and lots of the extremists are calling for violence. Something needs to be done before people get hurt.
Sunday, September 19, 2010
Saturday, September 18, 2010
Friday, September 17, 2010
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Remembering 9-11 From Billy
I know it's a bit late, but as we have reached the 9th anniversary of 9-11, what were you doing on that day? Me, I was home helping my mom with doing stuff around the house, as she was a few days out of the hospital after having surgery on her hand. We were both shocked, and I think the TV was on non stop all that week. I never thought that anything like that would ever happen in my lifetime. Let's never forget....
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Some Computer Security Tips
The phishers, fraudsters, hackers, identity thieves, bot netters and their ilk out there are getting more and more clever all the time.
Here's a summary of what one can do to prevent 95% of the attacks:
1. Use strong passwords. Make sure your passwords are different for different accounts, especially for your primary email account.
2. Run Firefox. If you must run IE, turn off ActiveX. It makes low level OS calls that can be exploited.
3. Run your virus scanner daily.
4. Lock your router down.
5. Check your social networking accounts regularly. If you see that you've made a post you didn't make, take action.
6. Same for your credit cards that you pay on-line. Diligence is critical.
7. If you use an iPhone or Droid, make sure that you have it screen locked. Most folks bind their email accounts and such to their smart phones; lose the phone, lose your identity.
8. If you get a suspicious mail from a bank, check the full headers. If you are at all unsure about the URL, google it. And don't click a URL in a mail - copy paste it to the address bar. It is possible to write javascript code that makes a URL go to a different place than it shows.
9. If you are unsure about a site, leave it. Contact the organization by phone.
10. Make sure you have your browser set up to clean out ALL data when you close the browser - cookies, history, all of it.
Sunday, August 29, 2010
What would you do
If you were trapped in a mine 2500 feet below the surface, like the Chilean miners are? Plus add in not being able to be rescued for 4 months. What would you do to keep from losing your mind? Luckily, they have contact with the surface, so they arent totally alone, and they are being supplied with food, water, and medicine. So let's hope for the best!
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Mosque Madness-from Billy
What do you think of the proposed Islamic Center planned to be built 2 blocks from the World Trade Center Site? It has sure caused controversy on both sides. Some say it's and insult to those that died on 9-11, some say that the 1st Amendment says that it can be built, citing freedom of religion. I agree partly with both sides. It my not be the right time to build it, even though the people have the right to build it. Just because you have the right to do something does not mean you should do it. I would bear on the side of caution. If you want to do something that has the hint of causing controversy, revamp your plans!
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Link of the Week
Here's one that might be useful to parents! If you're interested in home schooling, Click Here!
Friday, August 20, 2010
Thursday, August 19, 2010
How young is too young?
How old do you think a kid should be before they're allowed to email, and participate in social networking, such as Facebook? It's a complex question, since kids mature at different levels. Most people we've surveyed say 15.
Saturday, August 14, 2010
A lack of civility
In our previous post, we talked about gay marriage. This is one of many hot topics going around theses days. How do you discuss a topic like this with someone with a different point of view then yours without getting into an argument? It seems like with the advent of talk radio and cable news, there has become a lack of respect. You can't carry on a conversation and give your opinion without being insulted and called names. Can't we all get along? What's wrong with saying "OK that's your opinion, here's mine, we have differences, let's sit down and try to have a meeting of the minds, or agree to disagree?"
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Hot topic
Here's one of those topics that your hositts differ on! As you may have heard, Gay marriage has been legalized in California. Billy says, even though I'm a Christian, I do not think people's civil rights should be put to vote. Nicie doesn't like it because it's against the Bible, and courts should not overturn the will of the people. We shall see what happens next.....
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Classroom Countdown-Courtesy of MSN
Classroom Countdown: 10 Things to Do Before School Starts
Don't get caught off guard. Here's how to be prepared so your child's first day back is a smooth re-entry and not a mad dash to catch the bus.
1. Trade Short Sleeves for Long Sleeves
Go through your children's drawers -- either by yourself or with their help, depending on their age and interest -- and box up clothes that are too small, stained or worn out, or too summery for school. After you take stock, check out back-to-school sales for new outfits and shoes. Take your kids along so they can choose a first-day-back outfit (or if they wear uniforms, a nice piece of jewelry or watch).
2. Dust off the Family Calendar
After a summer filled with spontaneity, it's time to start thinking about how to organize school days, including after school lessons, homework, sports and social time with classmates. Sit down as a family to coordinate your time, travel and logistics. Include your kids so that they can learn an age-appropriate level of cooperation and responsibility, as well as a view of the big picture.
3. Shift Their Sleeping Pattern
Staying up late and sleeping in is almost a summer tradition. Help ensure a good first week back by slowly shifting your children's schedule so their sleep doesn't get cut short. About a week before classes starts, wake them up a little bit earlier every day until you're back to a school wake-up time.
Also, take note of how much sleep they are getting. Between ages six to nine, most children need about 10 hours of sleep, while pre-teens need a little over nine hours. Keep pushing their bedtime back until they are getting a proper amount of rest.
4. Apply Feng Shui to Your Home
Finishing up a tree house addition or tidying up your summer garden before school starts teaches your child the importance of completing projects. It also creates mental space for the energy and attention that a new school year requires. Take a look at closets, gear rooms and summer toys. It's better to put things away now, before the first snow hits and you're digging bikes or inflatable pools out of the snow.
5. Plan a School Visit
Many schools are open a week or two before the first day of classes so teachers and staff can prepare lessons and tend to the grounds and buildings. Call your school and see if they will allow a pre-opening visit so that your children can be mentally prepared for the grade they are entering (especially if it's a new school). Make a lunch date out of it so you and your kids can meet their teachers and see their classrooms without the frenetic distractions that happen on the first day back.
6. Shop for School Supplies
Clothes aren't the only thing your child grows out of. School supplies change, too. Check out your school's website or make a call to see what you'll need, and stock up during the many back-to-school sales. Be on the lookout for sales on backpacks, courier bags and rolling luggage. Bags and packs with padded shoulders are worth the extra money and will prevent muscle strain. Also, check the weight of your kids' loaded backpacks: they shouldn't weigh more than 10-20 percent of their body weight.
7. Research Extracurricular Programs
Check with your school to see what sports or activities are offered at your child's grade level and then have a conversation before school starts to determine their interest level. If they are going to be playing in a school band, take them to a concert and see which instrument appeals to them. If they'd like to try out for basketball, take them to a game or shoot some hoops in the driveway while going over the rules.
8. Start Menu Planning
Eating lots of fresh, healthy food helps your kids maintain a steady level of energy and concentration. It's easy to stock your fridge at home with healthy food, but when your children are gone for most of the day you have less control over what they eat. If their cafeteria doesn't offer enough unprocessed food, consider sending your child with a bag of carrots, celery or fresh fruit tucked into their backpacks. Also, since about one-quarter of a child's caloric intake comes from munching between meals, these can also double as healthy snacks.
9. Schedule an Immunization Appointment
Children still need immunizations beyond the toddler years; even some colleges advise that students get vaccinated for infections such as bacterial meningitis. A quick check with your doctor will prevent any last-minute calls from the school nurse. If you've recently moved, call your old doctor and have your child's records transferred to your new doctor as well as the school. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (www.cdc.gov) has a list of immunization requirements by state.
10. Relish the Last Days of Summer
Enough with the planning! Enjoy the last days of summer with your child: the flexible schedule, impromptu barbeques and days filled with, "I don't know what to do." Maybe you can even squeeze in a Labor Day getaway. By living "in the moment" now, you can teach your child how to enjoy all the "moments" that make up those first days of school -- one of the many lessons your kids, most likely, will only learn from you.
Michele Bianchi juggles calenders and to-do lists on her iGoogle page, on Google Calender and on scraps of pa
Thursday, August 5, 2010
Question of the week
Do you think the 14th amendment to the US constitution, which says that anyone born in the US is automatically a US citizen should be changed, to help reduce illegal imigration? We'll read your answer on the show!
Monday, July 19, 2010
SPECIAL NOTICE
We will be changing the days of our show to Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday, with repeats on Monday and Wednesday.
Sunday, July 18, 2010
Monday, July 12, 2010
From Money Magazine
Teach your teen paycheck savvy
(Money Magazine) -- Congrats! Your kid landed a summer job in this tight, tight economy.
Now, of course, he'll have that $7.25 an hour burning a hole in his pocket. That's where you step in: "Parents have a real opportunity to help teens learn to manage that first paycheck," says Mari Adam, a Boca Raton, Fla., financial adviser. "I can't think of a better learning experience." Share some solid financial strategies with your teen now, and your child may even have some cash left over come September.
Better explain the harsh realities of gross vs. net before your teen gets any big ideas about what she'll spend her wages on. She may not yet understand that taxes will be withheld from every paycheck. So sit down with your child to go over that first pay stub, explaining how and why taxes are taken out, as well as the difference between income taxes (which most teens are likely to get back when they file tax returns) and FICA taxes (which they won't). "This will be a real shock to them," says Adam.
Take it to the bank
Help your kid open two bank accounts -- one savings, one checking. Spend time together comparing fees and rates online, looking specifically for a no-fee checking account meant for teenagers. You'll have to co-sign the accounts, but it's worth it so your kid can start learning to use an ATM card and keep his balance in the black. (Just don't forget to mention the exorbitant costs of using another bank's ATM.)
Your child may balk at an analog check register but might enjoy tracking expenses online via Mint.com. To motivate him, explain about the $30 overdraft fees the bank will rapidly bestow if he messes up budget calculations. And remind him that at minimum wage, it would take most of a day's work to recoup that expense.
Share the savings secret
Deferred gratification is an important lesson. Your teen may not be inspired to stash cash for retirement but may be swayed to the savings habit with a near-term goal, like an iPod Touch or a limo for homecoming. Help her do the math so that she'll know how much to set aside per paycheck to afford her prize by summer's end. Show her how to have that automatically transferred from checking to savings every pay period. As an incentive, offer to match your child's contributions.
Avoid micromanaging
Blowing that first paycheck on shoes that will be out of style before the next check arrives is a rite of passage, isn't it? It's also a "very good lesson," says Rob Gordon, a Coconut Grove, Fla., financial adviser. So let kids have space to make spending decisions, even if they'll end up with buyer's remorse.
There's nothing like having wasted your own hard- earned cash to make you more careful with your money next time.
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Discussion of the Second Amendment-from Billy
Don't get me wrong, I have no problems with RESPONSIBLE people owning and using guns. My Dad is a hunter, and own several guns, and I'm OK with that. However, I do have a problem with total unfettered access. Something has to be done to make sure that crazies don't get their hands on guns. Yeah, if someone wants something bad enough, they'll find a way to get it, and you can't take away the rights of the responsible to punish the irresponsible, but........
Sunday, June 27, 2010
Friday, June 25, 2010
Thursday, June 24, 2010
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
We're Back
After taking a week's break, we're back! We will have Monday's Show posted soon and there are also 2 others from a couple of weeks ago that Nicie has on her comp that need to be uploaded! Stay tuned!
Wednesday, June 9, 2010
Overprotective Parents
These days, it seems that kids are not allowed to be kids. Due to the media, some parents think that there's a pedophile behind every rock. Also, they also think there's danger everywhere, and that if a kid gets online, they will automatically be bullied or molested. At the other end of the scale, there are kids who are allowed to do anything they want, no matter what the age. Kids mature at different rates, so that needs to be taken into account as well. Anyway, the point is LET KIDS BE KIDS!!! All keeping them locked away does is make them paranoid.
Sunday, June 6, 2010
Site Of the week
For you of the Conservative persuasion : Michael Savage. A no nonsense, pull no punches. Click Here to Check him out!
Saturday, June 5, 2010
Urgh
Well, we did a very good show last night, but my recorder crashed while processing it into an mp3, so it was lost. We mostly discussed the Middle East conflicts. There's been fighting over there since the beginning of time, and there seems to be no letting up. Can't everyone get along?
Thursday, June 3, 2010
Falling Away
Last night, your 2 fearless hosts discussed how the number of people who identify themselves as
christians has declined the past few years. We had a few theories:
People don't want to rely on God since the Gov. can help them
The increase of other religions/faiths
People being turned off by the hypocricy of some high profile christians.
People just not caring about their own spiritual welfare.
We Christians not setting good examples
Us 2 Christians would never turn from God, no matter how hard things got. There are probably other reasons that we haven't though of yet.....
christians has declined the past few years. We had a few theories:
People don't want to rely on God since the Gov. can help them
The increase of other religions/faiths
People being turned off by the hypocricy of some high profile christians.
People just not caring about their own spiritual welfare.
We Christians not setting good examples
Us 2 Christians would never turn from God, no matter how hard things got. There are probably other reasons that we haven't though of yet.....
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Good News
Nicie has finished moving, and since her new place has hig hspeed internet, we will be able to broadcast together again! Tune in for more details on when the next show will be.
5 Things Not to do when interviewing for a job
Courtesy of Career Builder.com:
Job searches, much like first dates, are about giving the other party -- in this case the employer -- a once-over and presenting yourself in the best possible way. Also similar to first dates, job searches give you several opportunities to make a single mistake that is a real turnoff.
You're on your own when it comes to finding true love, but for staying in an employer's good graces, we've got you covered. So put on your best clothes, style your hair and make sure you don't make one of these job interview gaffes that are certain to turn off an employer:
Turnoff No. 1: Arriving too early for an interview
The reason: Interviews are scheduled at specific times for a reason. Hiring managers have other meetings and responsibilities to deal with throughout the day, so they can't interrupt their schedule just to meet with you. Also, interviews often have multiple components. If you're scheduled to meet the hiring manager first, then have a conversation with some potential colleagues, followed by a tour of the company and finally a drug test, an early (or late) arrival disrupts everyone's schedule.
The solution: By all means, arriving early is better than arriving late. However, from an interviewer's perspective, arriving 45 minutes early and letting the receptionist know you've arrived is just as bothersome as showing up 45 minutes late. If you get to the interview location too early, go to a nearby coffee shop, take a walk around the block or sit in your car to pass the time. Checking in with the front desk five or even 15 minutes early is acceptable and shows the employer you're punctual.
Turnoff No. 2: Letting your desperation show
The reason: Although you have been looking for a job for several months or even longer, don't let your frustration become the interviewer's problem. A negative attitude that causes you to vent about the hardships of being unemployed can leave you reeking of bitterness and repel employers.
The solution: Don't get us wrong -- being unemployed can be one of the worst experiences a person goes through, and anyone who has been there understands that eventually you reach a point where you want to scream. Nevertheless, do your screaming before you get to the interview.
When you're preparing for the interview, think like an employer. Do you want to hire the person with amazing qualification, a great personality and the potential to grow with the company? Or do you want to hire the person whose primary concern is getting a paycheck, who sounds angry and who might quit the moment a better job comes along? Enthusiasm impresses an employer; desperation does not.
Turnoff No. 3: Being too aggressive with your follow-up
The reason: Employers want to see enthusiasm from job seekers, but they don't want to be inconvenienced by said enthusiasm. Two e-mails, a handwritten note, a few phone calls and a quick visit to the office just to see how things are going will not impress a hiring manager. That approach will scare them.
The solution: Again, enthusiasm wins over desperation every time. You need to send a thank-you note, and you can send both an e-mail and a postal letter to cover your bases. Pestering employers doesn't just make you look desperate, it also annoys them. They don't have time for so many distractions and eventually the first thing they'll think of when they see your name is, "Oh, that's the one who wouldn't leave me alone." Prove you have common sense, which includes knowing when to stop.
Turnoff No. 4: Talking trash about anyone
The reason: You probably have plenty to say about your incompetent former boss and inept co-workers, but you know better than to say it. You've been told that employers hear you talk negatively about a past boss and think, "One day you'll be talking that way about me." You might forget that the same thoughts run through their mind when you talk about other organizations, too. If you're interviewing with the No. 2 company in a specific industry, you shouldn't take cheap shots at the No. 1 company every chance you get. Employers know you're job hunting and that you've probably been just as unkind about them in other interviews.
The solution: Stay positive. Explain why you want to work for the company. Point out how your experience has prepared you for this move. You don't need to pretend that your former employer is a personal hero, but you should demonstrate that you are bringing something from the company other than your 401(k). Rather than belittle the competition, promote this company. Say, "I know your competitor is doing this, and they've had some success, but you have the ability to do this and that to beat them." The focus remains on this company and also on your ideas.
Turnoff No. 5: Lacking direction
The reason: Whether or not they are micromanagers, employers like to have some trust in their employees. If your résumé, cover letter or interview suggests that you have no goals, you are not an attractive candidate. If you don't even know where you want your career to go, how can you know this job is for you? A cover letter looking for a job instead of this job implies that you're floating from gig to gig until you get bored.
The solution: If you're not positive what your future looks like, at least create a narrative that satisfies you. This job might not be your ideal one, but do you see yourself learning from it and putting you on a path to something better? What could you do after you spend some time working here? Figure out what that path is so you can show an employer you know where you're going. You don't need to promise that you'll stay at this position forever, but you can suggest that you are eager to learn and want to move forward. Employers like ambition because these workers tend to care about their jobs and ultimately improve the business in some capacity.
Anthony Balderrama is a writer and blogger for CareerBuilder.com and its job blog, The Work Buzz. He researches and writes about job search strategy, career management, hiring trends and workplace issues. Follow him on Twitter at twitter.com/abalderrama.
Copyright 2010 CareerBuilder All rights reserved. The information contained in this article may not be published, broadcast or otherwise distributed without prior written authority.
Job searches, much like first dates, are about giving the other party -- in this case the employer -- a once-over and presenting yourself in the best possible way. Also similar to first dates, job searches give you several opportunities to make a single mistake that is a real turnoff.
You're on your own when it comes to finding true love, but for staying in an employer's good graces, we've got you covered. So put on your best clothes, style your hair and make sure you don't make one of these job interview gaffes that are certain to turn off an employer:
Turnoff No. 1: Arriving too early for an interview
The reason: Interviews are scheduled at specific times for a reason. Hiring managers have other meetings and responsibilities to deal with throughout the day, so they can't interrupt their schedule just to meet with you. Also, interviews often have multiple components. If you're scheduled to meet the hiring manager first, then have a conversation with some potential colleagues, followed by a tour of the company and finally a drug test, an early (or late) arrival disrupts everyone's schedule.
The solution: By all means, arriving early is better than arriving late. However, from an interviewer's perspective, arriving 45 minutes early and letting the receptionist know you've arrived is just as bothersome as showing up 45 minutes late. If you get to the interview location too early, go to a nearby coffee shop, take a walk around the block or sit in your car to pass the time. Checking in with the front desk five or even 15 minutes early is acceptable and shows the employer you're punctual.
Turnoff No. 2: Letting your desperation show
The reason: Although you have been looking for a job for several months or even longer, don't let your frustration become the interviewer's problem. A negative attitude that causes you to vent about the hardships of being unemployed can leave you reeking of bitterness and repel employers.
The solution: Don't get us wrong -- being unemployed can be one of the worst experiences a person goes through, and anyone who has been there understands that eventually you reach a point where you want to scream. Nevertheless, do your screaming before you get to the interview.
When you're preparing for the interview, think like an employer. Do you want to hire the person with amazing qualification, a great personality and the potential to grow with the company? Or do you want to hire the person whose primary concern is getting a paycheck, who sounds angry and who might quit the moment a better job comes along? Enthusiasm impresses an employer; desperation does not.
Turnoff No. 3: Being too aggressive with your follow-up
The reason: Employers want to see enthusiasm from job seekers, but they don't want to be inconvenienced by said enthusiasm. Two e-mails, a handwritten note, a few phone calls and a quick visit to the office just to see how things are going will not impress a hiring manager. That approach will scare them.
The solution: Again, enthusiasm wins over desperation every time. You need to send a thank-you note, and you can send both an e-mail and a postal letter to cover your bases. Pestering employers doesn't just make you look desperate, it also annoys them. They don't have time for so many distractions and eventually the first thing they'll think of when they see your name is, "Oh, that's the one who wouldn't leave me alone." Prove you have common sense, which includes knowing when to stop.
Turnoff No. 4: Talking trash about anyone
The reason: You probably have plenty to say about your incompetent former boss and inept co-workers, but you know better than to say it. You've been told that employers hear you talk negatively about a past boss and think, "One day you'll be talking that way about me." You might forget that the same thoughts run through their mind when you talk about other organizations, too. If you're interviewing with the No. 2 company in a specific industry, you shouldn't take cheap shots at the No. 1 company every chance you get. Employers know you're job hunting and that you've probably been just as unkind about them in other interviews.
The solution: Stay positive. Explain why you want to work for the company. Point out how your experience has prepared you for this move. You don't need to pretend that your former employer is a personal hero, but you should demonstrate that you are bringing something from the company other than your 401(k). Rather than belittle the competition, promote this company. Say, "I know your competitor is doing this, and they've had some success, but you have the ability to do this and that to beat them." The focus remains on this company and also on your ideas.
Turnoff No. 5: Lacking direction
The reason: Whether or not they are micromanagers, employers like to have some trust in their employees. If your résumé, cover letter or interview suggests that you have no goals, you are not an attractive candidate. If you don't even know where you want your career to go, how can you know this job is for you? A cover letter looking for a job instead of this job implies that you're floating from gig to gig until you get bored.
The solution: If you're not positive what your future looks like, at least create a narrative that satisfies you. This job might not be your ideal one, but do you see yourself learning from it and putting you on a path to something better? What could you do after you spend some time working here? Figure out what that path is so you can show an employer you know where you're going. You don't need to promise that you'll stay at this position forever, but you can suggest that you are eager to learn and want to move forward. Employers like ambition because these workers tend to care about their jobs and ultimately improve the business in some capacity.
Anthony Balderrama is a writer and blogger for CareerBuilder.com and its job blog, The Work Buzz. He researches and writes about job search strategy, career management, hiring trends and workplace issues. Follow him on Twitter at twitter.com/abalderrama.
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Friday, May 21, 2010
Incumbents Beware
With several long time members of congress being primaried out, It shows that the voters are frustrated with business as usual, and are looking for some new blood, and new ideas. It's happening in both parties, so it could be a good thing, getting politicians to start using their minds, and not going in lock step with the leadership.
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Drill Baby Drill?
With the Gulf Coast oil slick, it's time to discuss a few things. We agree that we need to start looking for domestic sources of energy, such as oil, natural gas, wind, nuclear, and geothermal. It is not good to be beholden to other countries for our oil, since the Middle East isn't exactly friendly territory for us. On the other hand, safety measures need to be improved here, in order to keep our environment from being harmed by accidents with oil rigs and wells. Also, if we are going to drill locally, perhaps the rigs/wells could be made more sightseer friendly, since who wants to go camping or sailing near a ugly looking oil rig?
The Court Has Spoken
Last week, the US Supreme Court Issued 2 rulings. One Said that juveniles could not be sentenced to life in prison without parole for non murder convictions, and another said that certain violent sex offenders could be kept in prison after their terms were over. We agree on both of these. When you are dealing with a teenager, there is a better chance of rehabilitating them, so they deserve a shot at freedom at some point. And, since it's generally recognized that sex offenders can't be cured, this is a good ruling as well. I'd (Billy) would rather see the law system use their resources in holding a guy that raped and murdered a 5 year old then a 15 year old who got a blow job from their 14 year old girlfriend.
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Opinions On Marriage
Both of us have had relationship problems. Nicie had succeded in hers, but me, not so much. Marriage is not something to go into lightly. It's hard to find that person that you totally mesh with. Sure, you're probably gonna have disagreements, but the key is to find some sort of common ground, and don't go away mad. That's probably a good reason for dating for a couple of years or so before you decide to settle down. Then when you do get married, remember it is an equal relationship, each person brings their own talents into it. Also, it's probably a good idea to get some sort of premarital counseling.
Friday, May 7, 2010
A Special Thanks
From Billy:
A special thanks, even though he doesn't know it, to my Pastor, Dan Howard. I run the sound system and the website of our church, and one of my duties is to record the sermons, take them home, and upload them to our site. I thought that you, our listeners, especially those of the Christian persuasion, might like to listen, and get some advice if needed. From now on, we might dedicate one show a week on this!
A special thanks, even though he doesn't know it, to my Pastor, Dan Howard. I run the sound system and the website of our church, and one of my duties is to record the sermons, take them home, and upload them to our site. I thought that you, our listeners, especially those of the Christian persuasion, might like to listen, and get some advice if needed. From now on, we might dedicate one show a week on this!
Link Of The Week
This week's link is for those 29 and under who need advice in their personal lives. Dawson Mcallister is a radio show host who has a syndicated show on Sunday Nights. He takes calls, tweets, and has a group of counselors you can talk to. To learn more, Click Here!
Managing your money
Here are a few tips for managing your money, as a lot of us need help!
1: Make A Budget And Stick With It! After you pay your bills, Don't blow what you have left over!
2: Avoid Credit Cards if at all possible. If you have to use one, make sure you pay it off each month, or as much as you can, interest adds up!
3: Know what you can and can't afford. If you see something on the expensive side you'd like to have, save up a few dollars each month till you have enough.
4: Let your kids be involved with the budget process, let them see what needs to be done.
1: Make A Budget And Stick With It! After you pay your bills, Don't blow what you have left over!
2: Avoid Credit Cards if at all possible. If you have to use one, make sure you pay it off each month, or as much as you can, interest adds up!
3: Know what you can and can't afford. If you see something on the expensive side you'd like to have, save up a few dollars each month till you have enough.
4: Let your kids be involved with the budget process, let them see what needs to be done.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Our Next show
Will be tomorrow night Wednesday 5-5-10 starting at 9pm eastern. The topic for this show will be:
What the Bible Says about managing your finances
What the Bible Says about managing your finances
Friday, April 30, 2010
From Billy
As a lot of you may know, I am a big coin collector. I thought for tonight's monolog I'd give some tips for the beginner:
1: Where to start: You can start a collection from pocket change, having coins handed down from relatives,
garage sales, there are lots of ways
2: Recommended Books: Here are a couple of must have books for the collector:
A Guidebook of United States Coins (Also called the Red Book)
American Numistmatic Association Grading Standards
3: How to Store Your coins:
I recommend the Whitman blue Albums, don't use the ones with plastic slides in the hole, as they scratch coins.
Single coins can be stored in plastic holder, just watch out , some plastics can damage coins.
Invest in a good safe or a safe deposit box.
And Last But not least: DO NOT CLEAN COINS! It might make them clean, but it can damage a coin's surface.
You can Collect by denonination or design, the possibilities are endless!
Billy
1: Where to start: You can start a collection from pocket change, having coins handed down from relatives,
garage sales, there are lots of ways
2: Recommended Books: Here are a couple of must have books for the collector:
A Guidebook of United States Coins (Also called the Red Book)
American Numistmatic Association Grading Standards
3: How to Store Your coins:
I recommend the Whitman blue Albums, don't use the ones with plastic slides in the hole, as they scratch coins.
Single coins can be stored in plastic holder, just watch out , some plastics can damage coins.
Invest in a good safe or a safe deposit box.
And Last But not least: DO NOT CLEAN COINS! It might make them clean, but it can damage a coin's surface.
You can Collect by denonination or design, the possibilities are endless!
Billy
So What Do You Think....
About the Arizona Immigration Bill? Racist or Not? We here at the show think it is OK. The US Borders need to be protected, Illegal is illegal. The US/Mexican border is prime real estate for the drug trade, and other criminal activities. Billy is pleased that there is a provision in the bill that says that no one can just be pulled over and arrested, there has to be a reason, such as speeding or a broken tail light. Racial Profiling is wrong, in Billy's opinion. Ever see the movie Born in East LA?
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Something New
We Will Soon Be Sending Out A Weekly email Newsletter! If your Interested, click on the email us link on the sidebar of this blog, and send us an email telling us you'd like to subscribe, Or Click Here!
Link Of The Week
This Week's Link is WayFM, A Chrisian Music Station. I listen to It every Day and Love it! Click Here To Check It Out!
The Topic For Tonights Show Will Be...
The Arizona Immigration Bill: Racist or Not? Listen in Starting at 9pm eastern tonight!
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Yes we have different political views...
And sometimes we get into lengthy discussions/arguments over it, Nicie and I never let it interfere with our friendship! She has her views and I have mine, and they are different as night and day, but we respect them.
Friday, April 16, 2010
Tonight's Topic 4-16-10
Tonight's Topic Will be:
Tiger Tiger Not Burning So Bright or Don't Do It Just Like Jesse James: Why do celebs Cheat in Marriage?
I think it's Because They Can get away with it, due to their popularity.( From Billy)
Tiger Tiger Not Burning So Bright or Don't Do It Just Like Jesse James: Why do celebs Cheat in Marriage?
I think it's Because They Can get away with it, due to their popularity.( From Billy)
Friday, April 9, 2010
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
Friday, April 2, 2010
Happy Easter!
We're taking the weekend off, hope you and all your loved ones and friends have a wonderful Easter! Never forget what the holiday is about, the death and resurrection of Jesus!
Monday, March 29, 2010
ARGGHH!!!
We Recorded a new show last night, but unfortunately, Miss Nicie's Recording software crashed while the recording was being processed into an mp3, so it was lost. have no fear, we will be recording it again tonight. The topic will be Easter. In the meantime, listen into a classic episode starting at 9pm eastern.
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Next Show..
Will be on Wednesday Night 3-24-10 Starting at 9:30 Pm Eastern!
Some of the topics will be:
Law And Order
Feminism
Politics
Some of the topics will be:
Law And Order
Feminism
Politics
Thursday, March 18, 2010
Sunday, March 14, 2010
Our next Show
Will be tomorrow Monday 3-15-10! Miss Nicie is back, and we will be talking about health care, and catching up with what Nicie's been up to, since shes been busy with life for the past few months.
Are you addicted to the net?
Do you sit at the comp for hours and hours?
is your only human interaction through chatrooms?
Think everyone online is who they say they are?
Neglect your responsibilites, family, and friends?
then you might be addictee to the net!
is your only human interaction through chatrooms?
Think everyone online is who they say they are?
Neglect your responsibilites, family, and friends?
then you might be addictee to the net!
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
So What's your opin?
Is all the crazy weather we've had this winter a sign of global warming? I don't know if that's what it is, but there had definately been a change over the past few years, I think.
Billy
Billy
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
What's your Opin?
A 12 year old school kid getting arrested and led out in handcuffs for scribbling on her school desk?! Is zero tolerance getting out of hand? I sure think so!
Billy
Billy
Friday, February 19, 2010
Opinion From Billy
If you're Complaining about something and do nothing to fix the problem, then SHUT UP!!
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Another Way To Get In Touch With Us
We've set up a voice mail account. If you'd Like to get ahold of us for your requests, comments, or questions, give us a ring at 206-337-8196. Leave your name and where you're from, and you will be mentioned on the air!
We're On The Move
We have found a new broadcasting site. This one is a bit better. Instead of having to stay on the site to listen, you can listen to it in winamp, Itunes, Windows Media Player, Or Real. Click Here and be sure to bookmark/Favorite it!
Monday, February 8, 2010
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Friday, January 29, 2010
Next Show
Will be tonight Friday 1-29 Starting at 10 pm eastern! The topic will be:
Justice Served: The Kansas Abortion shooting Trial
Justice Served: The Kansas Abortion shooting Trial
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Hi Everyone
Hope You're all doing good! Nicie is taking care of some stuff on the homefront, but hopefully shell be back soon!
Monday, January 25, 2010
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